In becoming stronger as a person, individually, one must also recognize that individual growth is exactly that – individual. It is custom to every single one of us and rarely do we all grow at the same rate – even if we are under the same roof, in the same family or besties.
We all have our own life path and experiences which create our reality. One of the best gifts you could ever give someone else is peace, kindness and understanding. Remove any judgment, control, negativity, expectations. To simply allow someone to flourish as they are meant to.
For some this can come easy, as second nature. For others, especially those who have experienced trauma or abuse (physical, mental, emotional), the process can be much more lengthy.
Dont compare yourself to anyone else, the mirror is not your enemy!