I heard this song on the radio as I was driving. When you are really in tune with yourself, some things will stand out and for some reason this one really did! I had to laugh when I heard it because I literally do have good jeans that I love – I haven’t had “good jeans” since before I had kids. If you are a mom you know what happens after having kids, if you are a mom with hormonal invisible illnesses you can appreciate this even more.
She’s got good genes, a good heart
Handed down from her mama
Daddy’s little girl gonna get what she wants
Second that you meet her, gonna know she’s the one
She’s got good jeans, good looks
Wears em out like a model
Man you should see her she’s the talk of the town
In her faded out, painted ons
Walking around in those good jeans
As I listened to this, I laughed about my “good jeans” but also thought about my “good gene’s” I was born into. I am truly thankful for my family, my history and the time we’ve had together.
Cause here’s the thing… we all have “good gene’s”, because they were meant for us, there will always be hiccups in life, things to over come. Which is one reason why this year I took a leap into an energy called Ohana Generational Healing.
This may sound off in left field for some of you, however I can honestly say its very real. Our energy affects our daily life, past and present. We obviously want to live as much in the present as we possibly can, its much healthier this way. However over the years and generations, life has drastically changed. Im sure you have heard people say whatever “runs in their family”… THIS is where we have the power to stop some of these things, to be conscious about the energy we bring into our life and our children’s. When I first spoke with Krystal at Krystal Clear Healing, as she explained this theory to me I immediately knew it made so much sense! Think of how life has changed simply in your own existence. Technology has been a massive force. However before our time, our loved ones who were in the war, previous to that even who didn’t have much because there wasn’t much to have, there were times of feast or famine, uncertainty, disconnected communication, illness. Do you even know who your family was 15 generations ago? I certainly do not! Energy carries forward, its something that can seem so simple, things said years ago as a small child that for whatever reason at that moment in your life you took as the truth – but could have merely been someone’s opinion.
This alone is causing so much disruption, heart ache, sadness in the world – people’s opinions! Yes everyone is entitled to their opinions, however for those not strong enough to rise above and value their own authentic self, this can literally cause people to crumble, lives to fall apart, illness, hatred. And sometimes its not entirely our own fault.
Ive always been a lover and believer of energy. Ive felt the amazing release during meditation of simply surrendering my thoughts and feelings and literally feeling like weights had lifted. Not even knowing sometimes what those weights were… cause sometimes they are quite simply NOT your weights to bear!
I heard this song as I was leaving my treatment. Literally as I got in the van. This is the song that began playing. My friends there are signs all around us, if we are conscious and open to receive. Its perhaps a foreign concept to some, but one I highly encourage you all to discover within yourself.
The truth of the matter is… the only person who can make you happy… is YOU!
Not your parents, your spouse, your children, your friends, your boss. If you are feeling discomfort, dis-ease in your life, unhappiness. Sorry, not sorry, its on you to rise up and continue rising up no matter what anyone else will say. Trust me, you will keep having to do this because as you rise up, some people may not like that. Some people enjoy control, bashing, abusing, but that doesn’t have to be you. Do not let their influence on their own life, be the influence on your life.
It can feel slightly lonely as you walk through this journey, until you truly feel validated within yourself – for the journey you are on. To feel compassion and love to others. To live a life of truth. To deal with your shit. The shit that everyone has but doesn’t want to talk about it. The more you bury something, the more it affects you and your generations to come!